Wow that went downhill quickly. Seems like one of those phenomena that isn't understood fully yet, so really sucks that you were a victim. Even Eric Borneman didn't really pinpoint the cause in aquaria, from what I found anyway. Just that it is stress related.
Did you ever try removing the leather? It's a pretty beasty one, so if it did go into warfare mode could have a big impact?
My other thought is metal poisoning ... somehow? Anything at all in your tank that could be leaching?
I can't remember, but do you have a QT tank? I would be moving any remaining LPS to another tank, see if the problem continues. Given you have done a 100% water change there must be soemthing your tank causing this. Unless the NSW itself is affected?
Fishing for ideas now because I don't want to see you bailout of marine given how far you have come, but understand you feeling that way right now.