so my update is...
i have lost one anthia, i believe it was a male and seemed like i had 2 males in there so i guess nature took its course, no hint of suspicion, except that it died the night of the day ads came over...just saying
my bangaii seems preggers, males fat as crap with a huge mouth and they swim together and wont leave each others sites and this was never the case before, the male is a bottom dweeler with the female and when it comes to feeding time the males stays under the rock ledge while the female goes to eat...will try net them into a floating breeder box or into the sump n hope i can raise some of them.
i got my hands on a phosban reactor with phosban media for now until i can grab some rowaphos
i will post pics of the bangaii and the FTS i have...but time will show the improvements ones the phosban kicks in and i start my zeostart dosing :)